1. What were your first thoughts as you read the essay? What stood out to you?

2. Evangelism and hospitality are often misunderstood in our culture. How would you define each of these terms? Has your understanding of each shifted over time? If so, how?

3. Author Skye Jethani writes in his book, The Divine Commodity, that “The English word ‘hospitality’ originates from the same Latin root as the word ‘hospital.’ A hospital is literally a ‘home for strangers.’ Of course, it has come to mean a place of healing. There is a link between being welcomed and being healed.”

How could hospitality help someone heal? Or to frame the question another way, what kind of hurts or struggles would hospitality help mend?

4. We introduced the Greek word philoxenia. It’s translated as hospitality; to receive a stranger as a guest. Perhaps you’ve heard the word xenophobia before. It comes from the Greek term xenos, which means “stranger” or “guest”, and phobos, which can mean “fear” or “flight.” Xenophobia is defined as, “fear and hatred of strangers or foreigners or of anything that is strange or foreign.” Or, put simply, it’s the fear of strangers.

Consider every kind of “difference” you can think of between yourself and others. Think about cultural, political, and religious differences, but also differences in personality, lifestyle, etc. Have you ever experienced a fear of the “other”? If so, how? Who makes you uncomfortable? Who do you avoid? Why?

5. Pastor Jon Tyson said, “The credibility of our faith depends on the quality of our hospitality.” Do you agree? Why or why not?

6. In Romans 12:13, Paul writes, “When God’s people are in need, be ready to help them. Always be eager to practice hospitality.” This specifically commands disciples to keep their doors and hearts open to the needs of other Christ followers.

What does this tell us about the nature and value of Christian community in the family of God? How does this contrast with the attitudes you observe in our culture? What does our relationship with Jesus give us access to?

Paul specifically instructs Christians to open their homes to other Christians. Does this mean when it comes to nonbelievers, we can close our doors? (Think back to what we’ve learned about evangelism.)

7. Pause and ask God to help you clearly remember a time when you were an outsider, and someone welcomed you in. Perhaps you can clearly remember when you became a Christian, when you moved from outside the family of God to in, or time spent in another country or with people outside of your culture. Maybe you’ve experienced a season of loneliness, and in the midst of it, found a friend, or needed something, and a stranger’s generosity met that need directly.

When have you been an outsider, and who invited you in? When have you been the recipient of a gift of generosity? What difference did that make in your life?

If this applies, consider writing that person a letter right now, or reaching out to them with a text or phone call. Thank them for welcoming you in, and helping you when you needed it.